I've been taking each of my 3 kids on solo dates for nearly a decade. It's one of my favorite traditions.
The author takes her kids on solo dates to connect with them. Courtesy of the author I created "special time" to spend one-on-one time with each of my sons. The tradition helps me stay connected as they grow older and more independent. I hope these small outings become the foundation of lifelong relationships. "When's my turn for special time, mama?" The question I love to hear most in the world from my three sons is asking when they can go out for a walk or cake and coffee with me. It's become a tradition, almost a haphazard one, but I'd never let it slip away. These times one-on-one with each of my children, which they have coined as "special time," have been and I hope will continue to be one of the ways I connect with each of them as they age. It started small It started soon after my oldest was 3. His younger brother had just turned 1 and needed my constant care and attention to keep him from the destruction of the toddler era . I knew th...